The Healing Power of Forgiveness
The morning of April 18, 2013, I received a call from my physician specializing in breast health. She called to let me know my biopsy results did show cancer. Some called Invasive Ductal Carcinoma.
She informed my husband we need to schedule an appointment to discuss options and she asked if we had thought of what to do if this matter came up.
Barry and I had not expected this matter to seem so quickly, so our answer was of course, No! Maybe we were a little naïve, but we were trying to work on the “positive thinking” option I guess we need to work on that a bit more.
I have always been vigilant with scheduling my physical and mammograms.In 2009, the brain tumor appeared and threw us for a loop.
After the brain tumor the weird symptoms appeared and I was diagnosed with; Cowden’s Syndrome, Lhermitte Duclos Disease, Thyroid Cancer, my gallbladder was removed, my tonsils were removed a second time, my mammograms started showing suspicious areas that needed to be rechecked and then biopsied.
During all of this hoopla, I felt the incredible urge to seek forgiveness from my God, my family and friends. When the possibility of death smacks you in the face, it makes you take a step back and look at our life. I felt silly apologizing to some of my friends, but the Lord and my is a different story.
My husband Barry was the toughest, but I could tell he was confused. But we talked it out. One of my desires, was to find and get involved in a good church. I wanted Barry and I to go together. I missed attending church.
We have since found as wonderful church and have become active members. Mom is going with us. It is a pleasure to see her enjoying herself and flourishing in the church community. She is about to be baptized.
I continue to ask God for forgiveness daily and to grant me the Grace, Strength and Mercy to help me settle the uneasiness that remains in the pit of my stomach today; I believe I know what I need to do to settle my stomach, but I am scared.
In the next month, I think I’d like to apologize to my ex-husband. He feels like my missing link. The problem I need to solve.
My family is extremely supportive and I love them each and everyone. They seem to have accepted my apology without fail. I hope this brings the closeness we once had back into our lives.
I didn’t leave my first marriage as I should have. I left my sister, Sandy and her family in town to deal with my mess. I was a mess at that time and truly did not know how to handle the situation. To put it plain and simple, I was young, stupid and scared. I got a new career and threw myself into work.
Seeking forgiveness from everyone involved, has started to ease my mind. I still need to follow through with talking to my ex-husband. We will see if it helps.
DAIlY PROMPT FROM
- Forgiveness (godsgirl4life2.wordpress.com)
- Mistakes (revkatiealexander.com)
All of our mistakes are simply a part of being human. We need to forgive ourselves too. I’ve read: The kindest and most compassionate thing you can do for yourself and others is to forgive yourself. Sending my best wishes~
I love what you said. It hadn’t occurred to me that I may need to forgive myself. I have always been harder on myself then anyone else. Maybe it is time to forgive myself and let it go…….Thanks, Jill
Thanks, Jill! I’m working on that too. 🙂
Jill – Nice post. I hope you are able to accomplish your goals. I am continuing to think about you and know that you’ll be able to handle anything — especially with such a great support system. Have a wonderful day!
Thanks for keeping up with me, Debbie…headed to breast specialist office now…..